Posted by John Merchant on March 12, 2003 at 21:22:12:
It’s a mistake for you to even talk to the lawyer; nothing to be gained by you, everything by him.
Just tell the lawyer that you’ve been instructed by your lawyer not to talk to him, and anything he wants to convey to you needs to be in writing…and I’d tell him this in writing so he can’t even wheedle out of you the fact that you don’t have a lawyer yet.
And also tell him in your letter to him that you’re further instructed to give him nothing, either information or documents.
Oh, and it’s my practice, anytime I’m communicating with the enemy, or potential enemy, to head my letters with this statement: “This letter is for purposes of negotiation only, and is not to be admissible into evidence for any purpose whatever and is an admission of nothing”…and I put this in bold, a size or two bigger than the letter font.
Generally speaking, settlement offers and negotiatilon between parties is NOT admissible, in any court, anywhere, and all lawyers know this…and your lawyer would immediately be on his feet objecting should the other guy try to slip this into evidence in any trial.
By the way, you have of course already talked to YOUR lawyer…right? If not, do it now.