Posted by randypena2002 on August 15, 2005 at 10:26:37:
Very good point!!! I agree with that whole-heartedly.
About ten years ago, my dad was involved in a big nasty lawsuit involving relatives who claimed that my dad screwed them. I was in the middle of the whole case too. In 1980, my uncle (a different uncle than the one I am dealing with now) GAVE my dad his share of the properties. Later on, in 1991, my cousin (not my uncle’s son, but his nephew), sued my dad, me, and my sister claiming that my dad screwed my uncle on the properties. They claimed that the transfer was due to a secret deal between my dad and my uncle. They claimed that my uncle was about to get sued because of an auto accident in which he was at fault. So to protect those interests, he gave those interests to my dad. It was all a lie, but the court believed them and we had to return those interests back to my uncle.
Now that I am making out the papers for my uncle to sign, i am doing exactly as you have suggested. Make it a ceremony, and make sure that everybody knows that he is making the deal voluntarily. Even if it costs an extra ten pages for the deed, it is well worth it. I am trying to include language in the deed where he acknowledges that he knows what he is getting into, and that if he makes this deal he knows what a life estate is all about and he knows what his limits are. Plus, I will make sure that we have plenty of witnesses, worse than signing a Will. Plus, I might make provisions for him to include his thumb-print, as is required for deeds recorded in California.
But, yes, I agree with you. Especially with my family, I have to take those extra precautions. But it is also good to use these extra precautions when dealing with retarded people or incompetent people. They can easily argue that you were out to screw them.
Another thing that is interesting to ponder. Even if a deed is a gift (for consideration given… etc.), be sure to give the Grantor some kind of compensation in the form of a cashier’s check or a title to something. That way there is no real argument that you cheated them.
A couple of years back, I was going to buy this guy’s interest in a property that he was losing to the county for taxes. This guy is incompentent and he is an alcoholic and about 60 years old. Well, the house he was going to give me, was registered under his mother’s name. (The house was condemned too.) She has been dead over twenty years. So I was only getting any claims that he MIGHT have to the property.
The offer I made him was that I will give him $100 for his share in the house. He will sign over a Quit Claim Deed to me, plus he will get me an official copy of his parents’ death certificates, and he will get me an official copy of his own birth certificate. If he does all this, I would give him $100 in the form of a cashier’s check. And we would do all the transactions at the bank. There at the bank he can cash the cashier’s check as soon as the papers were signed. Then on the way home, I would buy him a case of beer!
Thanks for the input…
Randy