Ethics and Character Issues - Posted by domineaux_TX
Posted by domineaux_TX on November 14, 2003 at 10:47:21:
I think it is often within the power of my hand to take advantage of people. It doesn’t happen often, but it does and to be honest I’m darned uncomfortable with it.
The worse cases are when the person I’m dealing with is one of those vulnerable individuals. Widows, newly divorced, inheritors, etc. Working with them makes me so uncomfortable, especially if they make the burden of making the deal my job.
When they say,“well what do you think”, when they should be doing the thinking really is annoying. It also, puts me on alert.
When I’m working with these weak kneed indivduals frequently I advise they get counsel. I know lawyers and accountants are deal killers, along with other third parties. Persons, who aren’t involved in paying or selling or financing the transaction are a big nuisance.
BUT…I also hate the friggin’ lawsuits that can pop up and create havoc in my life. Those weak kneed individuals always have someone to consult with, and it’s better to just get it done up front. It’ll sure save on litigation later, because you can bet if you frame the deal and they just sign on the line. There is always probability you’ll be hearing from them in court.
A rule of thumb…if they can’t make a decision before the deal, because of muddled thinking or lack of decision ability, and you’ve got to make it happen, the same muddled decision making and questioning goes on after the deal. Second guessing, sellers/buyers remorse, etc.
I try to be very objective with the vulnerable ones, and most importantly I really address “MONEY & TERMS CLEARLY EXPLAINED EVEN A LITTLE HARSHLY, ABSOLUTELY NO UNCERTAINTY ABOUT I"M GONNA MAKE MONEY IN THE INVESTMENT. THEY SHOULD HAVE COUNSEL BECAUSE THEY MAY NOT BE MAKING THE BEST DEAL FOR THEMSELVES”. If you get into litigation, you’ll find that course of action is respected by the courts. The court may still put the screws in you, if the plaintiff is a little ole’ widow woman. Something about fairness.
I think it does take character in the business, and I mean good character. In fact, I doubt you could survive over the long term without it.
So, if your little ole’ grandmother wants to sell her farm you can always call me to do the deal. I sure as heck won’t wind up with it… LOL