Posted by Dr. Pheel on April 05, 2010 at 12:19:43:
Yep. Depending on your State’s marital property laws, she might very well be able to get that loan withour you having any say in the matter. I suggest:
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Start being very nice to her. Don’t just met her halfway. Just be certain to treat her well, regardless of her behavior. this includes learning to be helpful to her.
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Don’t argue with her. If she says something that suggests she’s bothered, use the magic words: “You may be right.” or “I’m sorry you feel that way.”
3, Give her the last word…always. The sooner, the better.
At first she may be a little suspicious that you have another motive. You Do! You want to get along with her and enjoy the benefits of living with her in the house that SHE owns.